Foolish love final part 4 ..
After we divorced Mark went to live with his parents.Everything went back to normal and I dated a few other men afterwards,which couldn't bear productive fruits.Few years past and Jordan finished his medicine while I just lingered around my parents Company with no vital papers whatsoever besides my grade 12 certificate.Jordan called me one afternoon and said he heard what happened to me and was so sorry.He told me he wanted to take me out for lunch that Friday and I gladly said yes,hoping to rekindle the old flames.I was the first one to arrive at the restaurant he proposed for us to meet.A few minutes later, there he was looking elegant with a young beautiful lady by his side.I rubbed my eyes thinking maybe I was just dreaming,alas! I wasn't.They reached where I sat,I stood up and we hugged,then he introduced the young woman as his fiance and that she was also a doctor.Their wedding was scheduled in two months.Jordan went on to say that he invited me so that he could put me on his wedding line up.I was so confused I didn't know what to say and then I gathered up the courage and said'' I am so busy lately but I will let you know'' Luckly I was served by a phone call from my friend Mervis and that's how I excused myself and left.That night I cried and told myself to forge ahead as I brought up all this upon myself.Jordan's wedding past and it was the talk of the neighbourhood.My parents were also in attendance.Mark started dating an accountant whom he later married and they had a son together.
Some years later,My parent's company started falling apart and they decided to sell it though not almost immediately.In the name of coming to see his daughter,Mark and I secretly started seeing eachother again.I told him about my plans of building some flats after my parents sold the company.Henceforth, I was looking for a big plot and he told me he owned one which the sister bought for him and he was planning to sell it.The following day he came with papers (title deeds) bearing his name and we even went to see the plot that afternoon.I was satisfied with what I saw and I told Mark,I was going to buy it once my share was given.In no time,Mark became so good and our relationship was back on track.When his accountant wife found out about us,we had a big fight and that's how they separated and later divorced.I fell pregnant with twins,so that's how Mark suggested we remarry so that we can raise the children together.My parents and relatives warned me that Mark was no good for me and I was putting myself in more problems but I gave it a deaf ear.My parent's company was finally sold and dad encouraged us to put the money he was going to give us to good use.. ''My children I can tell you to start up a business,but nowadays it is so competitive and you might end up losing all your money'' he said.However,when you build houses you will never go wrong as there is lack of accomodation these days''
My father was not comfortable that Mark and I got back together,so he gave me half of my inheritance and kept the other half.At first I was furious but later on,I just accepted as it was still a lot of money.When I told Mark about it,he was so upset and told me,my father didn't have respect for me.I asked my husband if I could buy the plot since the money was in my hands.His response was''Baby you are my wife and we are one,why should I sell you the plot when we live together ''? Let us just start building and we will put it in the children's names.
We built five gorgeous flats and we moved in one of them while the other four were being complete.Upon completion we put them on rent and little did I know that in one of those four flats,lived Mark's girlfriend.I asked Mark why only three flats paid for the rentals and he started shouting at me that I should learn to be merciful because the girl who lived in the fourth flat was an orphan.I told him we didn't have any form of employment ,through the rentals thats where we got our bread and butter from,so I was going to evict her.The following morning I called Glenda and asked her why she wasn't paying for the rentals and she told me'' Ask Mark,I have no answer to that''Then later in the day,the girl in the third flat confided in me that,Mark and Glenda were dating.When I asked Glenda she agreed and I couldn't control my temper .I beat the hell out of her and when my husband came back I was beaten like crazy as well.From that time onwards I never had peace in my own home.I had no choice but to go and tell my parents about it.I told Mark I was so tired with the way we lived and I just wanted a peacefull life.He responded by saying ''we can as well divorce if we can't get along,it's allowed''.I just wanted out so that's how we ended up in court.The judge asked if we had properties together and Mark answered'' we do but they are in my name and here are the title deeds''.I cried and told the court everything that transparred concerning the flats but they refused and said they needed proof...like my husband's.We were given a month so that I could prove that the flats were indeed mine but unfortunately I had nothing to show for it.All the receipts for buying the materials for the houses were in Mark's name,literally everything was.So the judge gave us a divorce and said Mark was the rightfully owner of the properties.However,the court ordered us to sell the flats after Mark's parents said their son had nothing at all.We were told I was going to get 20% and Mark 80%,since he had all the supporting documents.
The only consolation I have is the other half of the inheritance,my parents decided to keep for me.The Flats were sold in January 2015 but I refused to get the 20% and told Mark he could have it all.He has since gotten back with his accountant ex wife....
I am currently doing my second year in college .I love writing and I plan to write a lengthy autobiography in the near future!
I shared my story,so that someone out there could probably learn from my mistakes.Many of you readers will definitely agree with me that indeed,it was foolish love. Matters of the heart are complicated and if not handled well,they could ruin your life like they did with mine.For me to come out and write this story means,I have regretted everything and I wish I had listened to my parents.
I lost a good responsible man and quit school because of one useless man without a future.I was young and even if I didn't end up with either Jordon or Mark,I could have ended up with somebody else worthy it.Some men will never appreciate you,no matter what good you for them .It was just foolish Love because nothing productive came out of it besides heartaches...
I hope it is a story worth learning from
Thank you
Some years later,My parent's company started falling apart and they decided to sell it though not almost immediately.In the name of coming to see his daughter,Mark and I secretly started seeing eachother again.I told him about my plans of building some flats after my parents sold the company.Henceforth, I was looking for a big plot and he told me he owned one which the sister bought for him and he was planning to sell it.The following day he came with papers (title deeds) bearing his name and we even went to see the plot that afternoon.I was satisfied with what I saw and I told Mark,I was going to buy it once my share was given.In no time,Mark became so good and our relationship was back on track.When his accountant wife found out about us,we had a big fight and that's how they separated and later divorced.I fell pregnant with twins,so that's how Mark suggested we remarry so that we can raise the children together.My parents and relatives warned me that Mark was no good for me and I was putting myself in more problems but I gave it a deaf ear.My parent's company was finally sold and dad encouraged us to put the money he was going to give us to good use.. ''My children I can tell you to start up a business,but nowadays it is so competitive and you might end up losing all your money'' he said.However,when you build houses you will never go wrong as there is lack of accomodation these days''
My father was not comfortable that Mark and I got back together,so he gave me half of my inheritance and kept the other half.At first I was furious but later on,I just accepted as it was still a lot of money.When I told Mark about it,he was so upset and told me,my father didn't have respect for me.I asked my husband if I could buy the plot since the money was in my hands.His response was''Baby you are my wife and we are one,why should I sell you the plot when we live together ''? Let us just start building and we will put it in the children's names.
We built five gorgeous flats and we moved in one of them while the other four were being complete.Upon completion we put them on rent and little did I know that in one of those four flats,lived Mark's girlfriend.I asked Mark why only three flats paid for the rentals and he started shouting at me that I should learn to be merciful because the girl who lived in the fourth flat was an orphan.I told him we didn't have any form of employment ,through the rentals thats where we got our bread and butter from,so I was going to evict her.The following morning I called Glenda and asked her why she wasn't paying for the rentals and she told me'' Ask Mark,I have no answer to that''Then later in the day,the girl in the third flat confided in me that,Mark and Glenda were dating.When I asked Glenda she agreed and I couldn't control my temper .I beat the hell out of her and when my husband came back I was beaten like crazy as well.From that time onwards I never had peace in my own home.I had no choice but to go and tell my parents about it.I told Mark I was so tired with the way we lived and I just wanted a peacefull life.He responded by saying ''we can as well divorce if we can't get along,it's allowed''.I just wanted out so that's how we ended up in court.The judge asked if we had properties together and Mark answered'' we do but they are in my name and here are the title deeds''.I cried and told the court everything that transparred concerning the flats but they refused and said they needed proof...like my husband's.We were given a month so that I could prove that the flats were indeed mine but unfortunately I had nothing to show for it.All the receipts for buying the materials for the houses were in Mark's name,literally everything was.So the judge gave us a divorce and said Mark was the rightfully owner of the properties.However,the court ordered us to sell the flats after Mark's parents said their son had nothing at all.We were told I was going to get 20% and Mark 80%,since he had all the supporting documents.
The only consolation I have is the other half of the inheritance,my parents decided to keep for me.The Flats were sold in January 2015 but I refused to get the 20% and told Mark he could have it all.He has since gotten back with his accountant ex wife....
I am currently doing my second year in college .I love writing and I plan to write a lengthy autobiography in the near future!
I shared my story,so that someone out there could probably learn from my mistakes.Many of you readers will definitely agree with me that indeed,it was foolish love. Matters of the heart are complicated and if not handled well,they could ruin your life like they did with mine.For me to come out and write this story means,I have regretted everything and I wish I had listened to my parents.
I lost a good responsible man and quit school because of one useless man without a future.I was young and even if I didn't end up with either Jordon or Mark,I could have ended up with somebody else worthy it.Some men will never appreciate you,no matter what good you for them .It was just foolish Love because nothing productive came out of it besides heartaches...
I hope it is a story worth learning from
Thank you
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